This is a long one, but for those of you who hang in there till the end, there is a pretty amazing giveaway!
I have posted this piece, adjusted slightly year by year, since 2009. The essentials don’t change much. The sentiment changes not at all.
This year is a bit different.
This year is dedicated to the loving memory of my grandmother Jonnie, who left us in August, I’m reasonably certain so that she could watch the Cubs win the World Series with my grandfather.
Jonnie is the reason I cook, the reason I gather loved ones around my table, the reason that when there are four for dinner I make enough for eight because abundance rules and one can always do something interesting with the leftovers. Jonnie taught me Thanksgiving, in every permutation of that word and holiday and philosophy. They say that the human body completely renews all of its cells every seven years, every seven years you essentially become a brand new person. And while my family Thanksgiving, which I have been cooking for over 20 years now, has stayed effectively the same, my recipes have slowly shifted from the ones Jonnie taught me, little changes in technique or ingredients, so that now, while the meal is effectively the same, it has also become as much mine as hers. I no longer do her turkey with the buttered cheesecloth over the breast, and I don’t stuff the bird the way she did. My mashed potatoes now include sour cream and chives, and there is significantly less brown sugar in the sweet potatoes. I’ve given up the green bean casserole in favor of Brussels sprouts or broccolini or other less gloopy options, and I make milkbread rolls instead of her yeast rolls.
Her orange sherbet jello mold recipe has not been changed a whit.
The various parts of the whole remain the same; the traditions are there, deepened a bit, adjusted, but still full of memory and still honoring what came before.
This will be the 24th Thanksgiving meal I have cooked. It will be the first one that I will have to do without eleventy million phone calls over the weeks leading up, going over the menu, telling her about some new thing, some new dish. She won’t know that this year the stuffing will include my homemade sourdough bread, although she knew that I was nurturing a starter, and saw pictures of my early bread baking efforts.
Jonnie loved this post. She re-read it every year, and every year she would call me and tell me that she just loved my Thanksgiving advice. And I always said of course she did, since most of it I learned from her. So this year, I’m extra-thankful. I’m thankful for all the usual suspects, my family and friends, my health, my home, a job I love and all of my lovely chickens who read and connect and keep me going. I’m thankful that my holiday table will be surrounded by the faces of those I love, and that the buffet will groan with deliciousness, and I’m deeply profoundly thankful that Jonnie taught me how.
Here is the advice I share with you every year. It is mine, and hers, and I hope, now, yours.
As a passionate home cook, Thanksgiving is my grail, my marathon, my Everest. The ability to pull it off well is a source of pride, and no moments of my year are as purely pleasurable as the brief silence around the table when everyone tucks into their plates, followed by gradual exclamations of rapturous delight. And while there is always something a little bit new or different every year, the basics stay the same, and I’ve gotten a lot of it down to a science.
But science doesn’t mean clenched perfectionism.
With all due respect to Martha, you don’t need twenty-four matching turkey shaped bowls for the soup to taste good, you don’t have to grow your own cranberries, or even make your own pie crust (or pie for that matter) for this day to be wonderful. Good food, prepared with love (or purchased with love), and served with a smile is all anyone needs for the holiday to be sublime…to each at the level of his or her own ability.
For those of you who are thinking of tackling the big day, I’ve got some tips to help you out. The most important thing about Thanksgiving is right there in the name, be thankful. If you burn the turkey, eat all the side dishes and proclaim yourselves temporary vegetarians and laugh it off. If you are with your people, whatever that looks like for you, then you are doing it right, the rest is just details. And if at all possible, set yourself up for success with some simple advice and simpler recipes.
Whether you are having a huge event with five generations, a gathering of your best pals who aren’t able to be with their own families, or just a small dinner with you and your sweetie, there are ways to make this day less stressful, and more joyous.
Firstly, know thyself. Do you regularly make your own puff pastry, serve towering flaming Baked Alaskas, and finish your sauces with homemade demi-glace? Then find any challenging menu that inspires you and have at it. But if you burn the toast four days out of ten, this isn’t the time to try anything complicated. Keep things simple, and don’t be afraid to get help with the hard stuff or fiddly bits. People love to participate, so let guests bring something to take some of the pressure off you. If you’ve never made piecrust, buy a good quality frozen crust. Look at local prepared foods sections of grocery stores and see who is offering side dishes and do a tasting the week before. If Whole Foods is making a killer stuffing, there’s no shame in serving it. Does gravy make you nervous? Add five or six whole peeled shallots to the roasting pan along with your bird, and simply blend them into the de-fatted pan juices or some stock to thicken it easily, add some herbs, a splash of wine or sherry, and you have a flavorful jus without all that tricky flour business.
Secondly, know thy audience. You might be a major foodie, but is Aunt Marge? No point in fussing over individual pumpkin soufflés cooked in hollowed out roasted quinces with vanilla bean tuiles unless the rest of your guests will think it as awesome as you do, and not wonder dejectedly where the Entenmann’s Pumpkin Pie with Cool Whip is this year. You can take the essentials and just make them with the best ingredients you can get, and know that you have improved, even if you haven’t monumentally altered. Or think of it as a retro meal, all the rage these days, and revel in the kitschy quality of making the recipes the old way.
Thanksgiving is also a great time to connect with your family members who cook…call Mom or Uncle Al and ask for advice and recipes, they’ll be flattered and you’ll be amazed how many great tips they can give you.
So, if you’re getting ready for the big day, here are Stacey’s (via Jonnie) Thanksgiving Commandments:
1. Thou shalt buy a fresh turkey from a butcher, and brine or dry brine before roasting.
I know Butterball seems like a good idea, and awfully convenient, but they are so filled with preservatives and water and other unnatural stuff, they don’t really taste like turkey. Call your local butcher and order a fresh turkey for pick up the Monday before Thanksgiving. The bonus will be that you won't have to thaw it! Take it home and dry brine for two days, essentially giving it a good salting and slapping it in a large Ziploc bag to hang out. I recommend the Food52 recipe for this. If you prefer a wet brine, go for it, I’ve been preferring the dry brine of late, especially since it saves a ton of room in the fridge, but do one or the other. Then cook as you usually do. You’ll be delighted with the moist, well-seasoned results.
2. Thou shalt discover how easy it is to make awesome cranberry sauce.
Cranberry sauce is not just the easiest part of the meal; it can be made up to a week in advance. It’s the perfect thing for even a reluctant cook to offer to bring to someone else’s meal, or an easy addition to your own. (and yes, I know some of you love that shimmering jiggling tube with all the ridges, and if you must, have some on hand…but do at least TRY homemade…you can always serve both)
3. Thou shalt not be ashamed to make the green bean casserole with the Campbell’s Condensed Soup.
Sure, I’m a foodie-slash-crazy-person, so I make my cream of mushroom soup from scratch before assembling the ubiquitous casserole if I’m going that direction…but honestly, it’s a tradition for a reason, the original recipe is pretty comforting and delicious in its own way, and easy to make, so even if you consider yourself a major gourmet, pull out the processed food version and serve with a smile. Ditto sweet potatoes with marshmallows. This is not the day for food snobbery or elitism, and even if you choose not to partake of one of these less elegant classics, be sure to let those who love them enjoy without commentary.
4. Thou shalt not overdo the appetizers.
And by overdo, I mean serving any if you can help it. You’re going to spend at least two days cooking for this meal. Let your guests be hungry when they get to the table. Keep your pre-dinner nibbles to small bowls of nuts or olives or pretzels or the like, think basic bar snacks…you just want your guests to have something to nosh on with their pre-dinner drinks, but if they fill up on hors d’oeuvres you’ll all be sad when you get to the table and can’t manage seconds. (this is good advice for any dinner party…either plan heavy hors d’ouevres and a light supper, or vice versa) If you must do soup, despite the fact that all good Thanksgiving soups are guaranteed to fill up your guests overmuch, plan on little espresso cups or dainty tea cups during the cocktail hour and not bowls at the table. Serving a soup course adds a level of stress to getting the buffet out that no one needs. I make soup essentially because if I don’t make the soup my family pouts, and the leftovers are pretty great all weekend. But I don’t do a soup course, they get just about three to four lovely sips to go with their pre-dinner bubbles, and when we get to the table, it is turkey time.
5. Thou shalt not bother with salad.
I know it always seems like such a good idea to make a fresh green salad. But frankly, it takes up valuable space on a plate that should be devoted to fourteen different carbohydrates, and you’re just going to throw most of it away, since it will be all wilty and depressed by the time you go to put the leftovers away. No one will miss it. Seriously. Stop even thinking about it.
6. Thou shalt not count calories, skimp on ingredients, or whine and pout about how bad the food is for you.
We are all very sensitive to healthy eating these days, and more than a few of us are dealing with the need to lose a couple of pounds. Or a couple of dozen. THIS IS NOT THE DAY TO DO IT. Thanksgiving is, at its very core, a celebration of food and the memories that food invokes and the new memories created at the table. You do yourself, your host, and the day a disservice if you think of it as anything else, or deprive yourself of the sheer joy of this meal. If you’re the cook, don’t alter recipes with low fat/low salt/low taste versions of things unless you have a guest with medically prescribed dietary restrictions. Don’t skip meals before, so that you aren’t blindly starving by the time you get to the buffet, and if you’re really concerned, fill your plate anyway you like, but either don’t go back for seconds, or on your second round, stick to the less gloopy veggies and turkey and the cranberry sauce. Any nutritionist worth their salt will tell you that one meal cannot derail your overall progress, especially if you get back to your program the next day and maybe add a workout that week. And any counselor will tell you that the surest way to be cranky is to deprive yourself while all around you are celebrating. Give yourself a break…you’ll be amazed that if you give yourself permission to have everything you want, how easy it is not to overdo it.
7. Thou shalt not stuff your bird.
I can hear you crying about it now….you are used to the bird packed with stuffing, you dream about the really crispy good part in the front over the neck, why can’t we stuff our turkeys? Here’s why….one, a stuffed bird is the best possible way to get food borne illness on the agenda. If the stuffing doesn’t get up to at least 180 degrees internally, it can breed bacteria, not fun for anyone’s tummy. Two, in order to get the stuffing to 180, you are going to overcook the crap out of the turkey itself, especially the breast meat. Three, all that moistness you love in the in-the-bird stuffing? That is all the juices from the meat that are getting sucked out by the huge stuffing sponge, and you not only dry out your bird, you have many fewer juices with which to make gravy. Make your stuffing and bake in a separate dish, and if you really miss that dense moistness, buy a couple of extra turkey wings and lay them on top of the casserole as it bakes, and/or melt a stick of butter in a cup of chicken stock and pour it over the stuffing ten minutes before taking it out of the oven. And get over it. Stuffing that wasn’t actually stuffed is always going to be better than food poisoning. We’ve started doing Julia Child’s recipe for a deconstructed turkey cooked on top of a pile of stuffing, which gives you the perfect stuffing and perfect bird, and in a fraction of the time. Cook’s Illustrated has the technique and recipe, including video, just Google it. But be prepared, it means no pan juices at all for gravy (which I love since then I can just make gravy the week before and freeze it), and no big whole bird to bring to the table.
8. Thou shalt not test more than one new recipe for this meal.
Thanksgiving is a wonderful meal to add to, but don’t do everything at once. I know that the cooking mags have all sorts of new-fangled versions of things, but they have to reinvent the holiday menu every year. Experimentation is good, but if you change the whole thing up at once, people are going to miss their old standby favorites. Pick one dish that you think is ready for a revamp, and throw in that curveball. If you love it, add it to the repertoire. But don’t do the chipotle rubbed smoked turkey, sweet potato kale bake, barley stuffing, green beans with fresh ricotta, and sherried fig cranberry coulis all in one meal. Someone will weep openly, and everyone will have to run out the next day and make a few traditional items to get them through to next year.
9. Thou shalt be neither The Thanksgiving Dictator, nor The Absent Host, nor That Annoying Guest.
If people want to help in the kitchen, let them. And don’t criticize the quality of their small dice, or the way they wash the pots. Ditto assigning specific foods to guests who want to bring something…if someone offers to bring a dish, ask them what they love to make or what they crave most about Thanksgiving and let them bring that. Who cares if you have two kinds of sweet potatoes, or both cornbread and regular stuffing? On Thanksgiving, more is more, and abundance rules. Besides, you have a three-day weekend that needs quality leftovers.
By its nature, hosting is complicated and hard work. But please do not be the host who spends the entire party in the kitchen cooking, serving and cleaning, and missing out on spending time with your guests. Make as much of the food ahead of time as possible, so that it needs only reheating to get it to the buffet. Put pitchers or bottles of water and wine all down the table for folks to serve themselves. When the food is set out, sit and eat! For the whole meal! Don’t jump up to make the coffee or organize dessert, everyone will be grateful for a brief break between the two courses. When the main meal is done, package up the leftovers, and if you are using real stuff and not disposable, scrape and stack plates, dump the silverware in a tub or pot of soapy water, and put it all to the side. Put out the desserts and then go be with your people. Until they decide to leave. In my house, the rule is no cleaning till guests are gone, even for big parties, I prefer to have the time with my Charming Suitor, we have a cleanup routine, and we know where everything goes. Put on some music, do some kitchen dancing, eat an extra cookie, talk about what worked particularly well, finish the wine, get a little snarky about your cousin Joey’s new girlfriend with the ultra tiny mini and the ultra big hair. Make it your decompression time. If you do want to have help, designate the two people who will be the easiest to work with and ask if they might stay an extra hour after everyone else goes to give you a hand. More than three people cleaning is too much, you are all elbows and there is never that much space. One person washing, one drying, one putting away or organizing it for getting put away later.
If you are the guest, offering to bring something, be clear about what you are capable of; make sure to ask how many people you are expected to serve, and DO NOT BRING ANYTHING THAT NEEDS ASSEMBLY OR COOKING ONSITE! Do you have any idea how supremely annoying it is for someone to arrive with a grocery bag full of ingredients to begin making their dish while you are doing a kitchen dance that requires logistics only slightly less complicated than the opening ceremonies for the Olympics? Or with their frozen or chilled item that they need to wedge into the one oven? Keep it simple. If your dish is to be served warm, bring it already hot in an insulated container, or in your own slow cooker so that you can plug it in somewhere unobtrusive till it is time to serve. Speaking of serving, my best trick for holidays and dinner parties alike is to bring my offering with a serving piece that doubles as my hostess gift. Target, Home Goods, etc. all sell very inexpensive serveware, and it is a huge relief to your hosts for you to hand off your contribution, already on or in its final destination, and say "The platter/bowl/basket is our gift to thank you for your hospitality." Nothing is more annoying after the meal than making sure everyone's serveware gets cleaned so they can take it back home. Ditto Tupperware, only bring something you want to leave behind. And if you bring a dish in your slow cooker, insist on taking it home dirty to clean at your house. I'm just saying.
10. Thou shalt be THANKFUL.
We are all very blessed in our own ways. Even if you are going through a rough time, there are those who have it rougher. The times in which we live are a little bit scary and sad, and we all deserve a day to focus on the good. Take a few moments to think about all of the gifts you have in your life, the family and friends who surround you, all of the wonderful things you may take for granted in the hustle and bustle of your day to day. Close your eyes, be joyful, and in all sincerity and humbleness thank the universe for your life.
I am deeply thankful for each and every one of you for reading, supporting my work, and me, and being kind and gentle ears in the world for my words.
And for sticking with me, a special treat! The lovely people at Larchwood Canada, who made my custom butcher block for me, have sent me one of their gorgeous cutting boards to give to one of you, a $220 value! And I’m doing this post early so that you can have it in time for the holiday. These handmade boards are endgrain larch wood, which is naturally anti-microbial and self-healing. Yeah, you can cut on it and it will heal itself. Magic. Plus, you know, completely gorgeous.
So, in Jonnie’s honor, just comment below with the name of the person you are most grateful for this year, and feel free to share a tip, trick, recipe, or memory. Do it by 11:59pm on November 15, and I will announce the winner by random drawing on the 16th.
Yours in Good Taste,
Here are some of my go-to turkey day recipes. Follow to the letter or use as a springboard for your own touches… All recipes are designed to accommodate 12-14 people with leftovers. And if you have recipes of your own to share, be sure to leave them in the comments section!
2 bags cranberries
1 ½ c port
1 c sugar
1 t salt
5 T orange juice
1 ½ t cornstarch
1 t ground mustard
1 t lemon juice
Zest of 1 orange
Pinch ground clove
Pinch fresh ginger
Zest of 1 lemon
½ c dried cherries-rehydrate in ¼ c port
Cook cranberries and port in a saucepan over med-high heat 10 minutes, until cranberries burst. Add sugar and salt. Whisk OJ, cornstarch, mustard, lemon juice in a bowl and add to berries. Stir to combine. Add rest of ingredients, cook 5-6 minutes more, cool.
10 lb. Yukon Gold potatoes (peeled, cubed)
2 sticks butter, cubed
1 cup whole milk, warmed (or half and half or cream, depending on how rich you like it)
1 pt. sour cream
1 tub whipped cream cheese with chives (or plain) at room temp
1 bunch chives, chopped fine
S&P to taste
Boil potatoes till soft. Drain completely. Put potatoes through ricer, or just use hand mixer to mash. Add butter first, then cream cheese, and then milk to just shy of your preferred texture. Once the potatoes are almost there, add in the sour cream, cream cheese and chives and season well. Hold in double boiler or slow cooker to keep warm. Can be held about an hour in a double boiler or up to two in a slow cooker on warm without breaking.
1 XL loaf country bread or French bread cubed and toasted till totally dry (2 lbs.) (or 2 lbs of the plain crouton cubes from the store)
1 pkg soft egg rolls or hot dog buns torn coarsely
2 ½ sticks butter
1 ½ c finely chopped onion
1 ½ c finely chopped celery
Celery leaves from 2 heads, chopped
¼ c chopped flat leaf parsley
Dried sage, thyme, marjoram (1 T each)
S/P to taste
4 lg eggs, beaten
1 32 oz box chicken stock…add as necessary to moisten
½ c toasted bread crumbs
Saute veggies and herbs in 1 ½ sticks butter. Toss with bread. Add stock slowly till moist but not overly soggy. Taste for seasoning. Stir in eggs and mix well. Put in deep foil pan. Drizzle with melted stick of butter and sprinkle of breadcrumbs.
400 degrees for 25 minutes covered, then 20 uncovered. If you want extra turkey flavor, lay the pieces of 2-3 turkey wings on top of the casserole for all but the last 10 minutes, and for extra moistness, melt another 4-8 T butter in 1 c chicken or turkey stock and pour over top when you uncover the stuffing, then continue cooking.
Can be made up to two days in advance, and reheated in a 350 degree oven for 30 minutes before serving.
Sweet Potato Casserole
8 large sweet potatoes
1 stick butter
½ c brown sugar
Cinnamon, nutmeg, s/p
1 bag mini marshmallows
Roast potatoes till soft. Mash with butter, sugar, and cinnamon, s/p, nutmeg. Mix in eggs.
Bake 350 for 25 minutes, add marshmallows to top in one layer, put back in oven for 10-15 more minutes until the marshmallows are golden brown.
Pumpkin/Butternut Squash Soup
If you want this soup all pumpkin, replace the butternut squash with fresh or frozen cubed pumpkin. If you want it all squash, eliminate the canned pumpkin and add another 2 lbs of cubed squash.
4 c cubed peeled butternut squash
2 large cans pumpkin puree (29.5 oz organic…not pumpkin pie filling!)
3 quarts chicken stock (or veggie stock if you have vegetarians coming)
1 pt. heavy cream
2 med. (or one large) yellow onions
1 stick butter
Fresh ground nutmeg
Sauté onions in butter till soft but not browned, add squash and pumpkin. Pour in enough chicken stock to cover the vegetables by about 1 ½ - 2 inches. Cook over medium heat till very soft, about 35-45 minutes. Blend with immersion blender or in batches in regular blender till very smooth, for extra velvety soup strain thru Chinois or fine mesh strainer. Add cream and season to taste with salt and pepper and fresh nutmeg.
Freezes beautifully pre-cream, I often make a double batch and freeze half without the cream in it. Is also delish without the cream if you want to be healthier J
½ c heavy cream, whipped to soft peaks
8-10 amaretti cookies, crumbled but not powdered
Blend together right before serving and garnish each bowl or cup with a generous spoon.
Have also topped with:
Crushed gingersnaps and mini marshmallows
Crème fraiche mixed with crystallized ginger
Candied orange zest and toasted pine nuts
Toasted gingerbread croutons
Whipped cream blended with cranberry sauce
Crouton with melted asiago cheese
Fried sage leaves
Curried nuts (pumpkin seeds, pecans, walnuts)
Balsamic Cipollini Onions
2 lbs cipollini onions, peeled (blanch in boiling water one minute, shock in ice water, skins should slip right off)
3 T olive oil
3 T butter
1 ½ T sugar
6 T balsamic vinegar
1 T chopped fresh parsley
Preheat oven to 500°F.
Place onions in medium bowl; toss with oil. Arrange onions on baking sheet or in roasting pan. Sprinkle with salt and pepper. Roast until onions are brown and tender, rotating pan in oven and turn onions once, about 35 minutes (they will caramelize and be quite dark in parts but, if you have coated them well with olive oil, will not have a 'burnt' taste). Meanwhile, melt butter in heavy small saucepan over medium-high heat. Add sugar and stir until sugar dissolves. Remove from heat. Add vinegar. Return to heat. Simmer until mixture thickens slightly, about 2 minutes. Pour over onions and continue to cook in oven 10 more minutes. Sprinkle with parsley before serving.
(great pre-dinner nibble! A bowl of these and a bowl of nuts are all you need.)
1 large bag baby carrots (2 1bs)
1 bottle apple cider vinegar
1 large jar honey
4 T mustard seed
1 bunch dill
Combine vinegar, honey and mustard seed in saucepan. Add carrots and cook over med-high heat till carrots are cooked but still crisp, 5-8 minutes. Store in pickling liquid in fridge. Before serving, drain liquid, add chopped fresh dill.
Jonnie’s Orange Sherbet Jell-O Mold
A family fave, and a bit of old-school fun on the plate.
4 3-oz pks orange jello
4 cups boiling water
2/3 cup lemon juice
2 pt. orange sherbet, softened
Dissolve jello in water, add juice. Chill till jelly-like consistency. Blend in softened sherbet with electric beaters. Put in greased 2 quart mold and chill overnight. To release, dip mold in hot water to loosen and invert over plate.
Most grateful for my daughter and my grandsons, who I hadn't been able to see for 4 years until this past July. Wish I could spend the holiday with them but maybe next year.ReplyDelete
My parents raised us to do just about everything that you don't recommend. Always stuff the turkey but cook it upside down. Have all of the canned stuff but no green bean casserole whatsoever. One good recco is to use the potato water in the gravy. We never had appetizers. It felt like we got up in the middle of the night to get that turkey into the oven, so why does it only take 3-4 hours nowadays to cook? My in-laws always have appetizers to the point that it's hard to muster up an appetite. There's chips and dips and shrimp cocktail and whatever else we can eat until the meal is ready. But it is a good time for all.
Hope your dinner is as lovely as it looks, and my condolences on your grandmother.
My husband, Mark, who can whip up a Thanksgiving dinner better than I can, but who never utters a word other than "this is delicious!"ReplyDelete
I am most thankful for my husband. He helped me stay sane (well relatively sane lol) throughout the wedding planning process, we got married Oct. 29, 2016, and he in general is my rock! We are hoping to just relax now that the wedding is over and enjoy the Holidays.ReplyDelete
My tip, make homemade rolls. They are great for the meal and even better for sandwiches made from leftovers!
This is beautiful advice! I'm hosting for the first time and it helped me a lot. I'm so thankful for my mom this year, her dementia is setting in and it is so hard to watch, but I'm grateful for our time with her.ReplyDelete
My fiance Dave. We're getting married in December. No real tips from me - other than wear stretchy pants. Ha.ReplyDelete
My grandmother, who passed away ON Thanksgiving a few years ago. Her best tip? Don't forget your pets....they need treats too. She would save all the scraps from Thanksgiving dinner and cook them in OATMEAL, of all things, and feed to the farm cats and dogs for a special treat on a cold winter day to warm them up. And her chickens got the leftover salad that nobody ate. ;-) Condolences to you, my dear. Enjoy your Thanksgiving with great memories of your granny. I know I will. Best, Jodie SpencerReplyDelete
I am most grateful for my youngest brother. We've both had an odd and less-than-perfect year. But, the oddness of the year has allowed us to spend more time than usual together as a family. He is the best baker in the family, taking after our grandmother, Josephine. I love the holidays because he bakes pies and treats like no other. His pumpkin cheesecake just says Thanksgiving to me. So, I am grateful that we will be together again.ReplyDelete
I'm most thankful for my mom. She has taught me how to be a good mother and wife. She has also taught me how to cook. Some of my best memories are being in the kitchen with her and just chatting about life. She lives 1000 miles away for over the half the year but she's never more then a phone call away.ReplyDelete
I am grateful for my two aunts, who have kept our holiday traditions going for the last 40 years. No matter how busy we are, my cousins, sisters and I get together each holiday with our aunts and prepare, cook and bake our traditional items. Homemade macaroni, Easter bread, and soups have been served at all holidays my entire life. Happy Thanksgiving!ReplyDelete
I am most grateful for my mother - healthy. active, and enjoying her retirement.ReplyDelete
My deepest condolences to you and your family on the loss of your grandmother. Sounds like you had a great one.
This is absolutely lovely - and I read it at a time I needed to be reminded about thankfulness. I am most thankful for my dear hubby, Steve, who bring me joy and laughter. And he shares in Thanksgiving prep duties.ReplyDelete
My favorite dish is a rice pilaf with pomegranate. Sooo yummy! http://www.eatingwell.com/recipe/248741/barley-wild-rice-pilaf-with-pomegranate-seeds
This year I'm most thankful for my husband. It's our first Thanksgiving as newlyweds and our first time hosting. My advice: let yourself relax and enjoy the food and company.ReplyDelete
Love to you, Stacey. My grandmother Rieger taught me a lot about cooking, and she's been gone 13 years now.ReplyDelete
I am, as ever, most thankful for my husband, my best friend, my partner in crime. We have grown in laughter and love and marriage for 17 years and counting. He is truly the best thing that ever happened to me, and makes me smile and laugh even when he's driving me crazy.
I am thankful not only this year but every year, every minute of everyday for that matter, for my 98 year old grandmother, Rita. I have had the privilege of celebrating 35 Thanksgivings with her. Over the years she has taught me how to make the best mashed potatoes (use sour cream), delicious gravy (giblets are a must), roasted butternut squash (butter & brown sugar of course) & sticky sweet pecan pie (Karo dark corn syrup is the only way to go)! She is humble & generous & has shown us that family is everything; what better to bring family together than food!ReplyDelete
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I am most thankful for my mom this year. My dad passed away three years ago and I decided this year to road trip with my mom while I could. We went on a two week road trip to Tybee Island, GA. Then I got to spend an extra week with her because I had to have emergency eye surgery! She took such good care of me and made me my favorite foods, including her sage cornbread dressing and from-scratch banana pudding.ReplyDelete
I am grateful for my parents. They have passed away but each year I realize even more how lucky I was to have them for as long as I did. They weren't perfect but they taught me all the important things in life. And I try each day to honor them.ReplyDelete
I'm most thankful for the time I had with my grandmother. She passed away in August too. The holidays will never be the same for us, she was the heart at the center of it all. But we decided to break open her Thanksgiving recipe box and do it up right for her. The turkey may be a tiny bit salty from tears, but the love we have for each other will balance it out.ReplyDelete
I'm grateful for my friends Julie and Mike, they've tolerated me and supported me through all kinds of good and bad. And we've been playing Words with Friends continuously for over 5 1/2 years! (point of honor and somewhat embarrassing all at the same time)ReplyDelete
I love the raw cranberry relish, that's basically just cranberries, a whole orange with the skin and some walnuts and sugar. And raisin pie. Ok, all pie.
I'm thankful for my 76 year old mom who abdicated holiday dinners to me about 5 years ago, and whose doctor just told her that she'll live to be 100. Thankful that I will be hosting her for another quarter century!ReplyDelete
I am most thankful for my husband. He helps me care for my disabled mother, as if he were her son! He is an amazing human being as well as being one of the kindest people I've ever met.ReplyDelete
I'm so sorry about the loss of your grandmother. I am a firm believer she will still be "part" of your Thanksgiving this year.... Just in a different way.ReplyDelete
I'm most thankful for my husband. I have not been in the greatest of places emotionally lately, and he has been terrific and extremely supportive.
I'm grateful for my mother-in-law who passed away this past August. She made Thanksgiving look easy. She will be greatly missed.ReplyDelete
grateful for my family and my friends. ALL of themReplyDelete
I am most thankful for my new baby girl, Merritt, born just a few weeks ago. I'm so excited to have an extra reason to celebrate and be thankful this year!ReplyDelete
A few family members are gluten free, and we discovered last year that a delicious alternative to traditional pie crust for the pumpkin pie is to make an oatmeal crust - just like what would be used for the top of an apple crisp, just used as a bottom crust instead. Seems unlikely but it's fantastic!
That sounds so good! thanks for the tip!Delete
I'm thankful to my husband. We are newleyweds, but he's been in my life during some tough times (not including our long distance relationship from two countries for almost five years). But this year, we get to celebrate as a married couple and most importantly, he doesn't have to leave the country.ReplyDelete
I am most thankful this year for my husband. He is the best father and partner in life. We are a team and I couldn't be the mother to two little ones that I am without his support. Plus, he LOVES cooking for Thanksgiving. Unfortunately we will have to follow commandment #8 and only use one of the AMAZING recipes above (although tempting to try many new ones). I do like being off the hook for salad and appetizers this year....thanks for the permission (and logical thinking). This is such a nice tribute to Jonnie and I wish you and your family a wonderful holiday season full of great memories of loved ones although they may no longer be present at the table.ReplyDelete
I'm thankful for my family. Thanksgiving was my dad's favorite holiday and my favorite memory is him frying the turkey the first year it was popular. It wasn't done so we had to finish it in the oven!ReplyDelete
I am most thankful for my friend Claire - she was diagnosed with metastasized melanoma 6 weeks ago. Not only is she a wonderful friend I've known my whole life, but accompanying her through this difficult time has been a gift. She (and the diagnosis) have challenged me in ways I didn't know I could grow and I'm so grateful to her for allowing me to join her and talk openly about all the we are experiencing.ReplyDelete
No tips, but I'm looking forward to making Stacey's mashed potatoes again this year! they are soooo good and I only allow myself to make them 1-2x/year because I will eat them all in one sitting.
I am most thankful for my amazing wife. In our first year of marriage we bought an old farmhouse and have been working tirelessly on it. She constantly amazes me with her new found skills and dedication to each and every inch, and most of all, patience with me (I'm not handy at all!) I keep her fed on those late nights when she works until the late hours painting baseboards and installing toilets.ReplyDelete
I am most thankful for my wonderful husband. I went on a 3 week, cross country trip with my mother this summer. He didn't come with us, so he listened to me every night about the days trials and tribulations. (Mom is 84, so it was, um, interesting.)ReplyDelete
No tips, but since my children don't really eat the traditional Thanksgiving day fare, we've been inventive and this year, we are getting take out from a BBQ place! To each his own.
I am thankful for my Dad, who always says yes when I or his teenage granddaughter asks a favor. For our Thanksgiving meal, I will make something silly for the table, i.e. olive/cream cheese penguins or turkey shaped cupcakes. My condolences of the loss of your beloved grandmother.ReplyDelete
I am thankful for my husband, who is always here and totally gets me :)ReplyDelete
I'm sorry to hear about your grandmother.ReplyDelete
This year I'm most grateful for my mother. I'm thankful to have a close relationship with my mom and that I inherited my strength from her.
My mom hosts Thanksgiving and I bring whatever she asks, usually a side or vegetarian main. Desserts were the job of my Auntie PJ or her mom Grandmother Rachel, both amazing bakers and pie makers!. One year the bakers and pie makers were not going to join us so my mom asked me to do dessert. I rolled out my dough, made pumpkin, Martha's Apple Pie and my hubby's favorite (and Grandmothers specialty) Pecan Pie. I grabbed a recipe from the Chicago Trib titled Easy Pecan Pie.ReplyDelete
I arrive at dinner with my offerings and on the couch sit Auntie PJ and Grandmother Rachel. My heart sank! How on earth was I going to serve these pies to these women! I walked in to the kitchen, put the pies down, poured wine into a water goblet and set my myself down to stew.
Dinner is fantastic. We clear and serve dessert. I slice and serve with vanilla whipped cream (which I had also made. What was I thinking!) Grandmother says how beautiful they look. And proceed to eat a slice of each, ask for seconds on the pecan, and declare it perfect! More wine for me! My baking credentials sealed in that moment!
I am so sorry about the passing of your grandmother. :-(ReplyDelete
I can't really pick one person, but I am grateful for my family: my husband, my rock; my parents, my cheerleaders and support; my sister and her husband, expecting the first baby in the family (due in Feb. 2017). Blessed and lucky to have a close, loving, sarcastic, funny, supportive group in my life!
My mom...she holds our family together and sacrifices her own hobbies and plans to make sure we are all taken care of, whether it is driving me around while I'm on medical leave, helping with my sister's children,or taking care of errands for my brother while he can't.ReplyDelete
My condolences on the loss of your grandmother. What fantastic memories and a great connection you have. I, for one, am thankful for her... without your inspiration for cooking, we wouldn't all be reading this post or your books!ReplyDelete
I am grateful for my husband. It has been a rough and stressful year for us. He's dealt with heartbreaking family drama, a horrendously stressful job which he had to leave for his own mental health, depression and anxiety which led to therapy, pet illness... the last 12 months have been extremely rough and has really reminded me that those we love are most important. Ultimately, we have each other, no children... it is just the two of us and we've weathered the hardest year so far in our 8 year relationship. This past week has brought us even closer together and I am thankful as I see relationships being ripped apart.
We're having a small quiet Thanksgiving and I am excited to spend quality time together.
My recipe recommendation (note- the goat cheese can be swapped out for another cheese. Brie works fantastically):
the grand marnier cranberry sauce is to die for:
You are the winner! Email me your shipping address to staceyballisinfo at gmail and I will get it out to you!Delete
My husband..2016 was a bit crazy and he made me laugh throughout it all. We did a practice run on our Thanksgiving menu a few weeks ago but we are adding the soup to the menu!ReplyDelete
What a lovely post! I am most grateful for my 2 daughters who, even though they both got married this past year, are still coming to my house for Thanksgiving.ReplyDelete
For the first time, since no one actually likes it (except me), we are not doing turkey or any of the traditional Thanksgiving items. I'm making homemade lasagna with everything from scratch, including the sauce and meatballs, with garlic bread and roasted vegetables. We'll do a lot of Trader Joe hors d'oeveres while everyone is watching football and have the day be about being together instead of me cooking for 3 days straight and worrying about who doesn't eat what. Wishing you and your family a very happy Thanksgiving!
so sorry to hear about your grandmother! she will always be a part of you. i'm grateful for my husband bob...ReplyDelete
Great post! I'd like to add "Thou shall not make stuffing with water instead of (chicken, beef, vegetable) broth. If you don, the stuffing just isn't worth it! Sorry to hear about your Grandmother - I'm sure she would love this post.ReplyDelete
I'm most thankful for my wonderful, amazing, generous,compassionate son Benjamin. He grew to adulthood despite my intense aversion to cooking. I know, that's anathema here and I'm blaspheming to admit it. I love food, but the production of good food, heck the production of any food, leaves me cold. So why comment? Because Benjamin deserves the recognition and if I have to cook, having an excellent cutting board would help.ReplyDelete
I am thankful for the time I had with my father this year. My family lost him in June.ReplyDelete
But we were lucky for the time we had with him
I am thankful for my daughter who keeps me young even when I want to be old.ReplyDelete
I am thankful for my husband. He loves me and supports me with all my crazy!ReplyDelete
I am so thankful for my wonderful husband. Turns out he makes a great dad too!ReplyDelete
Congrats Jamie, with the fabulous husband and the yummy cheese recipe. Email me your shipping address to staceyballisinfo at gmail and I will get your board to you!ReplyDelete